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PostSubject: Friends.....   Wed Jan 16, 2013 11:33 pm

Found out today that a friend of mine died of a heart attack and was dead in his flat a week before the police broke down the door....
Yesterday I thought of phoning to ask if he was dead as I had'nt heard from him.....

Keep in contact with your friends - you never know.....

Its really hard to never have said "goodbye"....and now I never can.....
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PostSubject: Re: Friends.....   Thu Jan 17, 2013 12:09 am

Oh Pandora, how upsetting for you (((hugs))) xoxox

Did he have family that kept in touch and saw him regularly?

It's never too late to say goodbye honey, if you missed his funeral, regardless of what your religious beliefs are, you could light a candle of rememberance at a church for him, visit his grave if it was a burial, and some crematoriums have a garden of rememberance where you could lay some flowers for him....or just light a candle at home and say goodbye with your heart and thoughts.

But most of all, don't feel bad that you and your friend hadn't spoken for a while, we can't see into the future and heart attacks can happen suddenly, you or anyone else could not have prevented it honey, so say not goodbye, just farewell.

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PostSubject: Re: Friends.....   Thu Jan 17, 2013 4:15 am

sorry to hear your sad news pandora

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PostSubject: Re: Friends.....   Thu Jan 17, 2013 6:51 am

Really appreciate understanding of how I feel.

Apparantly he's in cold store - am hoping to hear from one of his brother's in due course about a funeral - my numbers are on his phone -

Must have been horrible for the police - apparantly he'd been sitting in his armchair dead for a week......


shall make some enquiries.....

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PostSubject: Re: Friends.....   Thu Jan 17, 2013 10:22 am

so sad...sorry to hear
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PostSubject: Re: Friends.....   Thu Jan 17, 2013 10:26 am

Thanks Myra x
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PostSubject: Re: Friends.....   Thu Jan 17, 2013 5:49 pm

That is sad ,really really sad.

Best wishes in this most difficult time.

condolences.
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PostSubject: Re: Friends.....   Thu Jan 17, 2013 9:37 pm

Pandora, please know we're here for you honey xoxox
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PostSubject: Re: Friends.....   Thu Jan 17, 2013 11:23 pm

Thankyou Niagra xx

Thankyou LadyG xx
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PostSubject: Re: Friends.....   Fri Jan 18, 2013 2:10 am

Just spoke to his BEST friend in scotland - he knows very little - but knows there will be a funeral - in 2 - 3 weeks and will let me know so I can attend and say goodbye.

(thank god for FB)
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PostSubject: Re: Friends.....   Fri Jan 18, 2013 3:27 am

glad you have had some good news pandora keep checking local paper as it may be put in there also
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PostSubject: Re: Friends.....   Fri Jan 18, 2013 3:58 am

Good Idea Thanks xx
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PostSubject: Re: Friends.....   Fri Jan 18, 2013 10:29 am

I suppose that's one good thing about FB, you can contact ppl on there Very Happy
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PostSubject: Re: Friends.....   Wed Jun 12, 2013 7:03 am

Out of the blue - My friend's brother phoned me yesterday - he died of heart failure and alcohol poisoning.....and "did I know".....

he rang off before I could tell him I'd traced the grave and had visited several times and laid a "eulogy" and flowers in a vase....


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PostSubject: Re: Friends.....   Thu Jul 04, 2013 2:29 am

That's sad to hear. But not surprising. People should not die without anyone knowing in this day and age. Unfortunately they still do.
Sorry for your loss Pandora
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PostSubject: Re: Friends.....   Thu Jul 04, 2013 5:30 am

Thank you. Still can't believe he's "gone" - but maybe friends stay in your soul - so they are always there.
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PostSubject: Re: Friends.....   Thu Jul 04, 2013 7:01 am

Sorry for your loss Pandora,but your right in your thinking,all though those you love may pass on from this life,they never rearly leave you,as long as you keep them with in your mind then they are all way's within reach and alive within you.
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PostSubject: Re: Friends.....   Thu Jul 04, 2013 11:17 am

Dont get me started on souls! I have one right now under my skin Rolling Eyes 

Legend says when you cant sleep its because your awake in someone else's dream. I must really get around! Shocked 
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PostSubject: Re: Friends.....   Fri Jul 05, 2013 12:49 am

Sorry to hear of your loss!!! Keeping you and his family in my prayers!!
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